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At Alternative dating we believe you should be able to see whether or not the site is for you before you part with any money or financial information. To protect our existing members we do ask you to fill out a simple form but you are under no obligation to become a paying member unless you want to use any of our premium services.

Please take a look around the site, search through our members and see just how many suitable matches there are before you decide to join (which of course we are sure you will!). If you do decide that our members are not for you then please look through our other traditional dating sites here, or at our Adult Dating Network on

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Welcome to our site, your first stop for alternative online dating. On all of our dating sites we offer free registration which allows you full access within our site to search, view and receieve messages from our other members. As one of the UK's fastest growing alternative dating websites we are proud of our members and the functionality we offer and hope that you find all of the information you need as a free member to convince you to join our community.

Within alternative dating UK we are a welcoming dating site for all alternative lifestyles. We pride ourselves on the mix of members we have, from goths and emos, punks, tattoos, burleques, fetish queens to the alternative fetish worlds of doms, subs. We hope you will come in and join us.

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We love online dates, and as such have built up a network of specialist online dating sites. By cross selling through our network we try to ensure that our clients are signed up to the appropriate database for their needs. We can offer traditional dating sites broken down by age band, or on our adult network we provide the darker side, nsa sex and sex contacts waiting for a message.

By splitting our database in this way, we feel we can offer the best in internet dating, noone needs to feel uncomfortable, simply sign up fo free at the site most appropriate to yourself, and enjoy being welcomed by like minded adult. Don't settle for a compromise, go for a site where everyone is looking for the same things as you!

Free to join - no obligation to view and search

We do not ask for any financial information (or money) from you unless you feel that our site is for you and you are ready to commit. Our memberships start from just one month, and there is no obligation at any point to join or rejoin after your free membership or trial. We feel that a one month membership is the best way to experience our site and to get to know some of our members. Once a full member you can use all of the functionality of the site. Send and recieve messages, live chat, read and write online diaries and of course create custom search and favourite lists to bring your needs and desires closer to reality.